Honesty on a date?

Supafly · Dec 18, 2014

I just watched this video, and that made me think about this subject

I often wondered what the hell the woman thinks, really. Lateron, when I was in a class with only women around me for two years... I learned there are some things you DON'T want to know, as well as them don't have to know every detail about YOU

But what is your take? Total honesty would be ridicuöous, but how much do you want to knw, and tell?

FreeOnes_Adam · Dec 18, 2014

What separates us from the animals is the ability to withhold information and shut the hell up once in awhile.

Not like the cricket that resides under my dishwater.

But, lets turn the tables. What would the guys be saying on the date?

Rey C. · Jan 3, 2015

Since no matter what you tell her, she's probably going to listen to that little voice in her head that reinterprets everything you say and tells her she can change you anyway, just go with the flow.

The man saying, "I have no plans to ever get married and I do NOT want children" gets reinterpreted by her little voice to mean, "I can wear him down before I hit 39."

Troof! :yesyes:

sean miguel · Jan 3, 2015

"I might have chlamydia; is that ok?"

WDSnake · Jan 3, 2015

I guess it just depends on what you're aiming for with the date. Like, if this girl someone you're into and actually want to get into a relationship with, or is it just some girl who's pants you wanna get into

Mr_Stiffy · Jan 3, 2015

WDSnake said:
Like, if this girl someone you're into and actually want to get into a relationship with, or is it just some girl who's pants you wanna get into

I'd never bother going on a date with a girl if all I wanted was a shag. A whore can be cheaper than a date and comes with a guarantee. I only "date" girls I want to relationship with.

But then, I've never really gone on a "date" with a girl I hadn't already been physical with anyway, so maybe it's a moot point.

Little Red Wagon Repairman · Jan 3, 2015

As I get older I speculate more and ask questions less. Some good, experienced prejudging saves a lot of time.

sean miguel · Jan 3, 2015

If you meet her at a skating rink it's always bad news

Little Red Wagon Repairman · Jan 3, 2015

animus fox said:
If you meet her at a skating rink it's always bad news

Pretty specific there. Gotta story for us?

Johan · Jan 3, 2015

Do not tell me everything, but do not lie

sean miguel · Jan 3, 2015

Dino Velvet said:
Pretty specific there. Gotta story for us?

Yeah. I was 18. She was my first. I wasn't dating her. She was a hook up. I got chlamydia. Didn't find out til I gave it to my girlfriend afterwards.

TMI. But what else is there talk about right?

wtf

Little Red Wagon Repairman · Jan 3, 2015

animus fox said:
Yeah. I was 18. She was my first. I wasn't dating her. She was a hook up. I got chlamydia. Didn't find out til I gave it to my girlfriend afterwards.

TMI. But what else is there talk about right?

wtf

Sorry about your chlamydia. I apologize for unearthing such a sore, itchy, and irritating topic.

"I don't normally get STDs but when I do I scratch with both hands."

Mr_Stiffy · Jan 3, 2015

animus fox said:
Yeah. I was 18. She was my first. I wasn't dating her. She was a hook up. I got chlamydia. Didn't find out til I gave it to my girlfriend afterwards.

TMI. But what else is there talk about right?

wtf

Is this another of those drunk posts you'll regret later?

sean miguel · Jan 3, 2015

Dino Velvet said:
Sorry about your chlamydia. I apologize for unearthing such a sore, itchy, and irritating topic.

That's the thing, there are no symptoms, which is why it's so widespread and ... insidious.

sean miguel · Jan 3, 2015

Mr_Stiffy said:
Is this another of those drunk posts you'll regret later?

Yeah, but I usually regret most of them regardless.

Little Red Wagon Repairman · Jan 3, 2015

animus fox said:
That's the thing, there are no symptoms, which is why it's so widespread and ... insidious.

Considering we're in a new year now I wish you the best of all luck spreading your chlamydia to all the lucky ladies in Oregon. Spread your wings and fly then unleash the talons of doom on their unsuspecting pussy holes.

sean miguel · Jan 3, 2015

Dino Velvet said:
Considering we're in a new year now I wish you the best of all luck spreading your chlamydia to all the lucky ladies in Oregon. Spread your wings and fly then unleash the talons of doom on their unsuspecting pussy holes.

dude i'm way settled down now (and tested). It's all good.

Little Red Wagon Repairman · Jan 4, 2015

animus fox said:
dude i'm way settled down now (and tested). It's all good.

RIP to your chlamydia. I'm sure it was a good ride. I'm settled down also but should probably take your advice and get tested. I tend to avoid doctors because I hate bad news.

RASQ · Jan 4, 2015

"you don't lie to me, you lie to girls"

xfire · Jan 4, 2015

A first date isn't a stage for going into topics so serious that you need to be sworn in. I've only been on one blind date, all the other dates I've been on have been with women I was already fairly acquainted with so there wasn't any need for deception as it were, and the blind date was so awkward that I never even tried to go on a second date with her. I think a pretty good rule of thumb is to give and expect truthful answers, but don't ask prying questions. If she asks inappropriate, prying, or invasive questions she really shouldn't have any expectation of honesty.

Honesty on a date?

How do you feel about honesty on dates?

I demand 100% truth

I want to know her, but not every random stuff

Leave things to the imagination - or later

I'm into strangers

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